I Really Should Have Learned to Juggle

This post is going up late because I’ve been running around today.  Things didn’t go as planned with extra errands, traffic, my son deciding to stay home instead of shopping with my wife, and laundry.  I’m still at the beginning of laundry because one blanket decided not to dry completely.  Needless to say, I’m behind an 8 ball in terms of getting certain things done, but I guess I should have expected that.

With me working, the home life has changed and I had to focus a bit on making sure my son was okay with things.  There were tears and clinging on the first day, but he’s fine now that he sees I’m usually home before he is.  This week will hopefully be easier since my wife doesn’t have to leave early for work, so she can be there for longer.  It still means my parents are putting him on the bus though, but you take what you can get.  I have to get used to waking up early and doing more than lying in bed.  Shower, Internet, preparing meals, and the like take more focus and energy than I expected.  It shouldn’t take much longer for me to get used to things.  The downside is that I can’t bike in the morning, so I need to find a time for that.  Might be evenings, which means I have to get used to exercising with someone else in the room.  We’ll see how that goes.

Some people might be wondering about the job, but I really can’t go into any details.  I am a one-on-one TA, which means I’m there for a specific child.  The specifics about my job involve this student’s life, so that won’t be mentioned.  All I can say is that I had a great first week, which was only 1.5 days.  I got most of my paperwork in and have my ID.  I known my way around the school as far as class schedule goes.  There is a sense of oddness when I’m sitting in the Faculty Room considering I’ve never been in one even when I was a substitute teacher.  We were told to stay in the classroom down in Florida.  There were a lot of names and information that I’m still trying to sort through too.  Everyone was really friendly and helpful.  Overall, I’m happy to be at this school, which is amazing, and look forward to helping kids.  There is a point where I’m working with other students aside from the one I’ve been assigned to, so we’ll see how that goes on Monday.

Now, the title of this post refers more to the writing side of life.  I had hoped to get some editing done, but that didn’t happen.  Nights saw me with paperwork or there was another chore to do.  Unfortunately, it feels like the home life is still trying to run as if I don’t leave the house and have all day to write.  There are other reasons why I’ve been hesitant to edit at night, but I can’t go into those.  Not that they turned up because other things happened to undo that side of life as well.  I might get a chapter in tonight and maybe another tomorrow, but it’s going to be piecemeal for a while.  No idea how I can write a book at this rate, so I might tackle the Ichabod Brooks short stories first.  War of Nytefall might require a summer for writing, which hampers me.  At least if things continue around this path because people still seem to think I should drop writing entirely especially now that I have a job.  Might wait another week before I bring my outlining book to work and jot down ideas while on lunch.  Well, I already brought it, but I mean using it.

Another source of chaos this week might have been Thanksgiving.  My son and wife caught colds the day before, which meant we had to bow out of a family gathering.  A little baby would be there and we didn’t want to get her sick.  That meant I left work on Wednesday to do some quick shopping for a small meal.  Grabbed the last two Cornish Hens at the store and picked up the ingredients for cornbread stuffing (not homemade), baked acorn squash, and garlic green beans.  Pulled off a nice meal and now my son enjoys stuffing and green beans, so an extra victory.  Honestly, this was the first time I ever cooked a Thanksgiving meal.  Down in Florida, we would just go to my father-in-law’s, so this was a new experience.  I will say that I had a little assistant handing me supplies and rolling up my sleeves when my hands were dirty.  Now that I think about it, this was actually the first Thanksgiving where it was only my little family.  Nobody beyond the three of us, which felt rather quaint.

By the way, does anybody see sales coming from Twitter?  Most of my tweets are getting 100+ retweets, but I’m not seeing any sign of this leading to sales.  I do a daily pinned tweet, which I think I’ll keep up.  Just wondering if there are any hashtags that I might want to add or any tricks that I can do with ease.  Really hard to keep up with the social media stuff since I can only check in the early morning and during lunch before getting home in the mid-afternoon.

Not much else to report as far as the past and future.  Next week is a full one of work, so it’s going to be the real test.  I’m not worried.  So, what are the goals for next week?

  1. Work!
  2. Get a physical.
  3. Improve sleep pattern . . . Oh yeah!  I’m going to be getting an anti-snoring pillow tomorrow.  We’ll see how that goes.
  4. Edit more of War of Nytefall: Rivalry.  I’m still trying to decide on the beta reader situation here.  Much of it will depend on when I can finish my editing.  Having flimsy confidence isn’t helping here, so I’m aiming to improve that.
  5. Finish laundry before Monday.  Maybe fire will make that blanket dry faster.
  6. Try to cook a little even though I’ve been told not to worry until I get used to my new schedule.
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Belated Thanksgiving Post: War of Nytefall Edition

Snoopy!

In the past, I’ve done a post on Thanksgiving where book characters talk about what they’re thankful for.  I missed the actual holiday this year, but it’s never a bad day to be thankful.  This time, we find out what the vampires of War of Nytefall are thankful for.  Check them out in Loyalty and Lost.

So, what are you guys thankful for?

Clyde–  Come back to me later.

Bob– Horses!  *leaves room since his work here is done*

Mab–  People who don’t lock up their valuables.

Xavier Tempest–  My dear wife, Lady Sylvan.

Nadia Sylvan– My loving husband *interrupted by Mab making gagging noises*, Lord Tempest.  Stop being such a foul creature.

Gregorio Roman– At my age, I’m just thankful to be entertained and find things that make immortality worth having.

Clyde–  Still thinking.

Kai Stavros– I don’t really indulge in these sentiments because it’s fairly easy to lose things, including your life.

Lou–  A place to live.

Titus Winthrop–  Loyal friends and family who can share the centuries with me.

Kenneth Decker–  A purpose and code that prevents me from becoming a heartless monster.

Stephanie Talon–  The glory and love of my mistress, Lady Sylvan.

Clyde–  Don’t want to follow that one. Here’s Lost and her bunny.

Lost–  I’m thankful for bunnies, my powers, blood, cakes, the gnomes who raised me, ribbons, tasty animals, moths that destroy socks, Grandpa Gregorio, people not killing me for my mistakes, and this one tavern in Gaia that serves the best water I’ve ever had.  Oh, I guess I should be thankful for my mom who abandoned me because she thought I was a corpse.

Bunny– *coughs up a tomato*

Archillious–  I’m sure everyone expects me to say that I’m thankful to be so amazing and glorious.  Well, that’s just silly . . . It should go without saying, so I’m thankful for chaos.

Eighty– Our great Princess General even though she abandoned us.

Luther Grathan– Being able to enjoy nature and see it change over the years.

Chastity Sullivan– A thriving business and plenty of satisfied, returning . . . customers.  No way to escape it now, Clyde.

Clyde–  I’m thankful for getting out of the ground.  It’s lame and all I’ve got.  Not to mention this is only an illusion of myself that I left behind after sneaking out during Lost’s list.  Happy belated Thanksgiving.

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Out of the Office for the Holiday (Happy Thanksgiving)

First, don’t forget to grab a copy of War of Nytefall: Lost.  Now, for some funny memes since I’m out for the day.

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Conversations With Colleen: Meet Author, Abbie Johnson Taylor

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7 Tips to Writing Outlines

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I can already see the pantsers running for the door.  Don’t worry.  I assure you that this is going to both informative and humorous.  Honestly, it doesn’t hurt to have an idea about how to outline.  There are times you might be stuck and planning out a little bit can stop the clog.  Anyway, let’s get to the tips.

  1. There is no right or wrong way to outline.  It’s only your way.  Some people may need to go into detail with every aspect of a scene noted.  Others only need to put a single sentence down to help them remember the purpose.  It’s whatever makes you feel comfortable and catalog the ideas that you need for future writing.  All that being said, I don’t recommend writing on mirrors with soap even if you spend most of your writing time in the bathroom.  For no other reason than you could mess it up while flossing or brushing your teeth.
  2. Never be afraid to change up your outlining system.  What works for one story might not work for another.  This becomes incredibly true when you move from novels to short stories.  Sticking to your guns even when it doesn’t feel right can cause you some future agitation.  Then, you have laptops flying out windows, notes covered in teeth marks, and a naked author running down the block yelling about Chapter 3 not working out.
  3. Outlining can be spread out among multiple pages to be condensed later.  Maybe you’re on break at work and have an idea for Chapter 7, but you can’t carry a notebook around.  Just grab a napkin and jot it down to add it later.  Even if you end the whole process with a box full of scraps of paper, it means nothing fell by the wayside.  You might have a little trouble deciphering the pieces that have dried ketchup on them, but that’s the price you have to pay.
  4. While not an outline, character bios and flushing out plot central locations and objects can help.  You never know what kind of subplot will appear when you design these things.  There’s even a chance it will fill in a piece of the main plot that you didn’t even know was missing.  Guess the lesson here is that your subconscious can have more information than you realize.
  5. Don’t let your subconscious call all the shots!  Okay, this might be a little confusing considering what I just said.  You have to realize that the back of the mind is fairly messy during the planning stage.  It’ll grab whatever comes near and plug it into the outline because it either works or seems like a good idea at the time.  This can lead to an outline that is all over the place and confusion when you actually sit down to do the writing.  What in the world do you mean by ‘eat three pies’ in Chapter 10?
  6. It helps to read through an outline before you start writing.  Maybe some of the chapters now feel superfluous or there are two that can be combined.  It’s similar to coming back to a book for editing and seeing it with fresh eyes.  Only instead of grammar and spelling, you’re seeing if things need to be enhanced, eliminated, or merged.  You can also leave yourself confused by the really confusing shorthand that only made sense in the moment.  It’s like someone else wrote it just to mess with you in the future.
  7. Always remember that characters will make mincemeat out of your outlines.  Doesn’t matter how good you are because they will do something that makes sense for them, but it didn’t cross your mind during the planning stages.  At least you have a foundation to keep them somewhat in . . . Where did that impish supporting character with the two-bladed chainsaw go?
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Happy Thanksgiving with a Giveaway

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Happy Thanksgiving | From the blog of Nicholas C. Rossis, author of science fiction, the Pearseus epic fantasy series and children's books

Five years and 1,100 posts after hitting Publish for the first time on WordPress, I have now been joined by thousands of people who tune in on a daily basis. How can I be anything than thankful for each and every one of you? Thank you for sharing your journeys with me and allowing me to share mine!

To celebrate Thanksgiving, and with Black Friday only a couple of days away, I’m participating in a Bookluver giveaway with not one but two of my books! Even better, this will get in the right mood for Christmas with a Kindle Fire, plenty of eBooks and paperbacks, an Amazon shopping spree worth $50, and more:

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Enter here before December 9th: https://bookluver.com/book-giveaways

As I mentioned, I’m participating with two of my books: Runaway Smile and my latest, A Heaven for Toasters.

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Teaser Tuesday: Someone Is a Wee Bit Angry #fantasy #adventure

Cover Art by Jason Pedersen

This comes from Legends of Windemere: Charms of the Feykin (Book 11) and it’s part of the beginning of the adventure.  The core of the story is that Delvin Cunningham and Sari have gone missing in the jungle.  Now, their friends are off to see what happened to them.  It’s never a good thing when cultists get involved.

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Relaxing with Writing

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Full confession:  I get irritable and depressed if I go for 3 days without writing.  It doesn’t have to be much.  A few notes about a character or idea.  Maybe outlining a chapter or two when I have a few minutes.  Just whatever I need to keep the imagination sharp and the creative juices flowing.  This is one of the reasons why I have 30+ ideas spread out across large piles of notebooks.  When you’re working other jobs, you end up using your lunch time to get the ideas out.

Still, it seems like adulthood is very anti-creativity unless you already have the right job or enough money to muck around with life.  The stress and worry builds up a lot to the point where you might begin to fear that your imagination is seeping away.  At least, that’s something that has happened to me a lot.  One of the reasons I outline and plan so much is because it helps assure me that I haven’t lost the spark.  That love of crafting a world that I can draw people into and give them the sense of escape that I had when writing every word of the book.  When I write, I go on the adventure alongside my characters and this is an experience I always hope to share.  Yet, I always have this fear that I might wake up one day and lose the ability.

I might be getting off topic, but there was a moment many years ago where I hit such a darkness that I couldn’t write any more.  I don’t even remember how long it lasted or exactly how I got out of it.  I can only recall two things.  One was that it was a frightening experience for me.  It made me think my entire life up to that point was a waste and that reality had robbed me of something special.  The other is that I used notes and outlines to help start the recovery.  Not sure if they jogged things back into place or came afterwards, but they were part of it.  So, I take these activities very seriously because they have become my tether to my imagination when I can’t do full books.

One reason I bring this up is because I’ve had several moments this year where I fear that I’m about to go back into that abyss.  Stress has been high and I’ve felt like my entire support system has decided to step out from beneath me.  It’s hard to continue going when you get daily mentions of how you’re walking a flawed path, money issues, and all around shame at being associated with you.  Yeah, this post is taking a dark turn, but some people have made it clear that they never wanted me to succeed in the first place.  So, I’m a little bitter during the writing here.  My point is that even the tried and true outlines that keep me going can lose some of their power.  Writing is my mediation and it is getting muddied by negativity.

So, how much peace and tranquility do you get from writing?  Is it a job, a calling, or a lifestyle for you?  I’ll fully admit that I’m a combo of 2 and 3.

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A Writer’s Guide to Firearms: before the Modern Age

Lots of good info in here.

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You may be excused if you have forgotten this post series by now, as the last installment was posted back in May. Then, life interfered with my good author friend’s, William R. Bartlett’s, best intentions, so this penultimate part is only published now. It continues his discussion of all things firearms. If you have missed the rest of this brilliant series on firearms, you can check it out here. As always, Bill includes some great tips on writing about older firearms and some common writing blunders. His next, final post will continue part 6 with Flintlock weapons. Enjoy and bookmark! 

A Writer’s Guide to Firearms by William R. Bartlett

Part 6: Firearms before the Modern Age

Prologue by William R. Bartlett

Thank you for all your kind responses. This is the final part in my Writer’s Guide to Firearms series and here I’ll discuss weapons for those who…

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Teeter Totter Tumble?

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Teeter totter
Trying not to tumble
Holding the plates of life
On flimsy sticks
That threaten to snap
Wind pounding on the stacks
And shaking my perch
A tight rope gaining ice
Suggestions are given
To ease my burden
Jettisoning plates
That others think are pointless
Yet may be dear to me
Every step met with fear
And a chorus of boos and cheers
Creating a maelstrom
That threatens the whole act
Teeter totter
Will I stay or tumble?

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