I’m really hard on myself. Think a lot of people can say this about themselves as well. It’s extra tough to handle the inner critic when it comes to art. Yet, one has to be their own cheerleader as well. We are the final say in what our art will look like, which makes us the best critic as well as the worst. So, how does this work exactly?
Be Your Own Cheerleader
I’m going to start with the positive side first. We need to have hope, faith, or whatever you want to call it in ourselves. Once we give up on ourselves, the game is over. So, our inner critic needs to be positive to keep us going even if it’s telling us how we made a mistake. I believe all authors run into this voice when editing. You need to fix things without feeling like the entire project is a mess. Think people used to say that you need to junk 85% of your first draft to make it good, which is kind of extreme. It still shows that one can be critical and keep pushing forward as long as they feel that all of the changes are for the best.
This can be dangerous though. Being too positive can make an author egotistical to the point where they won’t listen to outside opinions. As much as we aim to be our own cheerleader, we need others to support us. It’s not a solo show even if we believe it because we need editors, publicists, readers, reviewers, publishers, and more. So, a person needs to remain open to other opinions. Listening solely to the positive critic inside to avoid negativity will block you off from this.
I’m Trash!
This is the abyss that will lead to utter failure. Your inner critic can’t muster any positive thoughts on your creations. It isn’t being tempered by a cheerleader, so you’re destroying everything you make. Nothing is good enough. Every word is a mistake. You end up going back to the drawing board all the time. At this point, the inner critic is the equivalent of an Internet troll determined to make you quit. It’ll vanish as soon as you do so and swear to never try again. One could say this voice is born from depression, anxiety, or doubt. No matter what, it’s pretty nasty.
Though, it isn’t entirely useless as long as it’s kept on a leash. We do need to admit when we’ve made mistakes. An author needs to be able to ditch bad ideas instead of pushing forward with something they hate. Sometimes, you have to put aside something that you like, but isn’t working out. Not a full quit, but shelving it to work on projects with more gravitas. The ‘negativity’ here isn’t at full strength, so it helps one come to the conclusion that it’s time to move on or make really big changes.
Balance is Key
For anyone who has been following my blog for years, they probably knew this would be coming. I’m always talking about balance because that’s what one needs. Odd coming from someone who is repeatedly unbalanced, but it’s easier to preach this than put it into action. My mentality aside, the trick with the inner critic is to make it be cheerleader and party pooper. Maybe it’s the cheerleader who is at the bottom of the pyramid and not happy about it. Give them an attitude where they are positive, but have no problem tearing something down if they hate it. That way, you keep going while making changes and casting aside things that really don’t work.
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