Goal Post: Not a Day Without Drama

Drama might be an exaggeration.  Yet, every day since last Saturday has had something big going on.  That’s why I feel like I’ve lived a month within the last 7 days.  Doesn’t help that the looming ‘life event’ is set to make next week another adventure.  Hopefully, it’s one that doesn’t last too long because it will be painful.  Let’s move on to something I can talk about.

I’ll just flat out say that I couldn’t get anywhere near my book.  I had hoped to work on it a few nights, but things kept happening.  Haven’t been sleeping well too.  All of that resulted in me crawling into bed earlier than usual.  I didn’t fall asleep, but I was lying in bed hoping I would.  Not much exercising beyond Pokemon Go outings too.  I need to make sure I bike more before I start putting weight back on.

Last Saturday was my niece’s 3rd birthday party.  Rain had us move things indoors, but the kids still had a blast.  It was fun watching them play while I ate more of the pretzels than I should have.  Made it home in time to do some Pokemon Go and get caught in the rain.  This would be a running gag for Sunday too.  The weather kept letting up for a while and I’d keep going outside thinking it was over.  Then, it would do that mist thing that’s annoying and gradually drenches you.  Not fun.

Monday was Yom Kippur, so I didn’t eat until the sun went down.  ‘Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time’ was my distraction game this year.  Didn’t get as far as I’d hoped, but I haven’t played it since 2002-ish.  Still, it got me to dinner, which was a foot long Subway meatball sub.  Ate it a bit too fast, so my stomach was giving me trouble.  Didn’t help that I had a 3 scoop sundae later, which meant I didn’t sleep well.  This set the stage for the busy work week . . . That’s not important.

My son had a minor health scare, which was over fairly quickly.  It still had an effect and left both of us nervous.  It caused some issues with mornings too.  Reward systems weren’t working and things got tense leading into a day with 1 quiz, 2 tests, and a take-home quiz.  I think we pulled out a victory in the end.  Hard to tell before all of the grades come in, but we’re all twitchy about next week.  Another stressor was him starting clubs, which threw off my schedule and gave us less time for homework.  It’ll take a week or so for us to settle into a routine.

Health-wise, I got my sleep test results and they’re what I expected.  I have to wait for insurance to weight in before I get my CPAP machine, which could take 2-3 weeks.  I still love how list of advice always includes ‘lose weight’ as if that’s so easy.  Sleep apnea makes it difficult to lose weight due to lack of energy and an increase in insulin resistance.  So, I might need the machine before I start making real progress.  The scary part is that one of my breathing episodes (shallow, faint breathing) lasted for nearly a minute.  Other times I stopped breathing for 10 seconds.  At least that’s how the information appeared.  I’m definitely counting down the days until I get this thing and then get used to sleeping with a mask/hose connected to me.

This coming week should be easier, but the ‘life event’ will be the real mood setter.  I’m hoping to get at least a chapter of Darwin & the Beast Collector done this weekend.  I get my flu shot, so we’ll see if that whups my butt.  I might have some writing time on Monday too.  If I’m lucky, I can get two chapters done.  Once the week really kicks off, I’ll be focusing more on preparing December blog posts to clear that docket.  Pokemon Go outings will be done as well because it won’t be raining or snowing on the days we typically go out.  It will all end with a 3-day weekend, which I have my son for and already have an exciting outing planned.  October has special ‘after hours’ events at the Bronx Zoo and I finally managed to get tickets to one of them.  Going to be a blast.

I can’t really think of anything else going on.  Life is just getting from one day to the next, but I’m starting to see light at the end of the tunnel.  At least with the health stuff and maybe the ‘life event’.  Writing is still going to be difficult since I only have weekends and occasional breaks.  I’m hoping that the reduction or elimination of my sleep apnea will restore some of my author energy too.  Fingers crossed.

So, goals of the week?

  1. Write more Darwin & the Beast Collector this weekend.
  2. Help son with homework.
  3. Handle ‘life event’.
  4. Have fun at work as usual.
  5. Exercise more, especially on days we don’t walk around playing Pokemon Go for 2 hours.
  6. Continue eating more chopped salads.
  7. Start watching ‘Castlevania: Nocturne’ and maybe finish it.
  8. Puzzle time when I need quiet.
  9. Really should clean the bathroom.
  10. Seriously, that ‘life event’ has me nervous.
  11. Oh, get flu shot today.
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7 Tips to Being Interviewed

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Just like before, this was inspired by a class last school year.  I figured if I did tips for one side of the table, I should do it for the other.  Thinking about it now, October is coming up with a bunch of monster posts.  Maybe this interview theme is good way to easy into the kind of scary time.  Guess we’ll find out.

  1. Listen to the person asking a question and try not to think up an answer as soon as they start talking.  You might think you know where they are going, but there’s a chance that you will miss something if you aren’t paying attention.  For example, they could bring up specific character, so you think they are going to ask about the inspiration.  Instead, they want to know about a specific event the character went through.  You might not realize this if you’ve already gone into your own head to craft the ‘perfect’ answer to a question that isn’t asked.
  2. Try to give more to a question than a simple answer.  Some interviewers won’t know exactly what to ask or think you will go running with a topic.  As long as you’re comfortable, build upon what you say in the first sentence.  It’s like writing a book where you need to expand upon the initial concept.
  3. Don’t feel like you have to be rushed for answers, especially if the interviewer appears to be leading you in a specific direction.  Take a breath and think for a few seconds to gather your thoughts.  Speaking vaguely as if to stall for time only helps for a bit and can cause problems.  So, it might be better to say nothing at all.  If you have a drink then take your time having a sip.
  4. Keep your temper in check even if the interview is taking an insulting turn.  Once you explode, you give the person what they may have really wanted.  Remain calm and state that you aren’t comfortable.  You can also polite say that you think the interview is going off-topic or that an area they are heading into is private.  For example, an interviewer is asking about your book, but starts heading into the topic of your divorce.  Not their business or on topic, so you have every right to say so.
  5. Before the interview, feel free to politely request anything that will make you comfortable. Don’t make demands, but ask if a drink or snack can be made available.  You can even try to ask if a specific venue that you prefer be used.  If they say no to the location then don’t take offense because they may not be comfortable there or have another reason.
  6. TURN OFF YOUR PHONE!
  7. Watch the interviewer’s body language and listen to their voice tone.  That will help you get a sense of how they are enjoying your responses.  If they are yawning or slouching, you might be boring them.  Part of doing an interview like this is to show that you are worth talking to.  They may have felt that at the beginning, but now you have to prove them right.
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Brainstorming

Hey, SE Readers. Joan with you today. Today’s post will likely resonate more with pantsers than planners and plotters, but hopefully, everyone can …

Brainstorming
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Poetry Day: Fragile Form

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(Definitely wrote this after I pulled a muscle or stubbed a toe.  It got me thinking about how humans are supposed to be the superior species of Earth.  Yet, we are so easily injured and broken that I start to question that opinion.  I mean, many people will be bedridden after a violent sneeze while some animals continue surviving with chunks taken out of their bodies.)

Stubbed toes and papercuts

Broken bones and gashes

Our bodies take all beatings

With skin that tears with ease

And bones that snap with force

Diseases hunt us in our sleep

To cripple our reserves

And sink us to the grave

Still we trudge upon this world

Crowing our superiority

As we hobble and limp away

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7 Tips to Running an Interview

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I came up with this post and the one on Friday while I was a TA in an ELA class last school year.  The students had to interview a person, so they were learning about how to ask questions to get deep answers.  This got me thinking about when I did some author interviews and  similar projects while I was a student.  I didn’t think about job interviews though, so these tips might not work there.  Then again, what do I know?

  1. Go into an interview with some level of background knowledge.  If you are talking to an author, learn about their books, inspirations, and whatever else you can find.  Check out their blog if they have one.  This information will allow you to come up with questions beyond the basics and create better follow-up questions.
  2. Try to avoid ‘yes/no’ and other types of questions that can be answered with a single word or sentence.  This is why planning might be necessary.  Authors might enjoy rambling at length, but you can’t be sure of that.  Some authors can be fairly shy if questions go beyond the book.  Ask about inspirations, concepts that got cut, most difficult of the process, and anything else that might get a conversation.
  3. Speaking of conversations, try to treat the interview like one.  A solid conversation is one with back-and-forth, but also depth.  If you’re simply throwing out a question and receiving a simple answer, you aren’t getting the most out of your time.  This is where spontaneous follow-up questions can expand on things.  It might result in other questions getting dropped for time, but you get a more natural flow.
  4. LISTEN TO YOUR INTERVIEWEE!
  5. Don’t set out to embarrass your interviewee or make them uncomfortable.  There is an audience for ‘gotcha’ questions, but they’re not interested in the author or their book.  They want the type of entertainment that comes from the tearing down of another human being.  Send them to Twitter for that.  You, hopefully, chose to interview this person because you were curious about them, respected them, and wanted to help them get some exposure.  Not to bring them to tears.
  6. Do what you can to make your interviewee comfortable.  This can be a relaxing setting, a drink, snacks, or anything that will put them at ease.  You can even ask beforehand if there is anything they would like to feel comfortable.  This will help the interview flow and prevent the event from starting with tension.
  7. Pay attention to body language.  This will be a clearer sign that you heading in a comfortable or uncomfortable direction.  Avoiding eye contact, tense muscles, twitching, and many other signs will show if you are heading to an early end to the interview.  You can also figure this out if the answers become more limited and restrained.
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Ten Writer Habits That Are a Detriment to the Writing Process

Hi SEers. John is with you on this hump day. I hope your week is going well. If not, just hang in there since relief is only three days away. Today, …

Ten Writer Habits That Are a Detriment to the Writing Process
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Revisiting Origins: Queen Trinity

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Where to even begin with Trinity?  Over the course of Legends of Windemere, she has worn the mask of a villain, hero, savior, tormentor, victim, friend, rival, and a few others.  I think she’s the most diverse one of the whole cast because I had to move her from one spot to another.  It wasn’t really supposed to be this way either.

Trinity is the ruler of a species called ‘Chaos Elves’.  These are a species of elf that maintain some of the demon taint that was thrown into the mix of the original model, which nearly destroyed Windemere.  They live on the shadowy continent of Shayd and are known for being deadly assassins.  Although, they used to be known as annoying pranksters before the Great Cataclysm happened.  Very few people know that Baron Kernaghan’s prison cracked enough that he managed to enslave the chaos elves and turn them into his personal army.  He’s gone through many puppet rulers to keep them under his thumb, but now he has Trinity.  This might not be a positive for him.

Originally, Trinity was a deal-loving caster who debuted in Prodigy of Rainbow Tower to counter the power of Nyx.  She was actually stronger at first because she had more experience.  While Nyx trained for most of her life in Rainbow Tower, Trinity took the throne and became an agent of the Baron at a very young age.  By the time she appears in the books, she’s had a lot of kills and misery under her belt.  Plenty of suffering too because she’s done what no other ruler has done before.  She accepts the punishments of her people, which has kept many of them alive because the Baron would never dare to kill her.  This upbringing always made me think of Trinity as a mirror image of Nyx and that either one could have become the other under different circumstances.  In fact, this is a plot point for one of the books when Trinity confronts Nyx . . . This is also where I began having problems.

I always expected Trinity and Nyx to be bitter rivals who would push each other to the highest levels of skill.  Then, they’d settle their feud once and for all with all of the hatred coming out at once.  Unfortunately, I could never maintain their hate because I would see how they’d respect each other.  Nyx wouldn’t hate Trinity who does evil to protect her people.  Trinity wouldn’t hate Nyx for following her destiny.  This would result in them being forced to team-up at times, especially since both of them despised Stephen Kernaghan.  I did manage to create a few scenarios where I could have them really throw down with each other, including their final encounter.  Yet, it never had the emotions that I wanted.  Instead, there was an odd amount of pain and anguish that they felt when doing battle.  It came alongside a sense of pleasure and excitement since nobody else could challenge them in the same fashion.  So, my bitter rivalry became a friendly one that made me change a lot of stuff later on in the books.

For those that made it far into the series, you probably know more about the Trinity/Stephen stuff.  This is probably the darkest I got and it’s a big reason I hated the guy.  I was never sure if I should be overt with the fact that he had raped her and probably threatened to kill her people if she said no.  Before anyone freaks out, I’ve made it clear many times that Stephen is the irredeemable monster of the series and I had to take a shower whenever I wrote a scene where he wasn’t getting his ass kicked.  I think Trinity helped to flush out the horror that he was and it strengthened her a bit because she got to fight back at times.  There’s a big scene that touches on this and Nyx is involved too, but it’s kind of a spoiler.  I didn’t let this part of Trinity’s history define her either.  It was another scar for her to have among so many others, but this is the one I think about the most.

2023 Addition–  You know, I don’t really know what to say about Trinity.  Like Kira, she evolved rapidly and without much concentration.  She went from the sole female flunkie of Baron Kernaghan and Nyx’s rival to an eventual anti-hero.  Part of it might have been that I slowly realized that I didn’t want the chaos elves to remain on the side of evil since they weren’t monsters.  They were clearly being manipulated and having them abruptly revealed as such near the end didn’t feel right.  Trinity gave me a way to demonstrate that her and her people weren’t just villains.  There was situational nuance to them, which enhanced her purpose and symbolism.  She became a savior and martyr for her people even though she was standing with Baron Kernaghan.  I think the way she changed also led to me altering how evil he was too.  That’s why Stephen Kernaghan really stands out as the only ‘evil for the sake of being evil’ type.

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Smorgasbord Book Promotions – New Book on the Shelves – #Humour #Fantasy – Goodbye Old Paint (The Hat Book 7) by C.S. Boyack

Delighted to share the news of the latest release by C.S. Boyack…Goodbye Old Paint (The Hat Book 7). On pre-order for October 2nd. About the book …

Smorgasbord Book Promotions – New Book on the Shelves – #Humour #Fantasy – Goodbye Old Paint (The Hat Book 7) by C.S. Boyack
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It’s That Time of Year Again: Yom Kippur

The Day of Atonement is upon the Jewish people.  Another day of not eating from sundown last night to sundown today.  That means, I’ll be tackling a video game to distract myself from my hunger.  My choice is from the N64 collection the Switch.  I missed playing ‘Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time’.  Had a lot of good memories playing this game in college.  Anyway, enjoy the funnies.

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Blurbs

Ciao, SEers! We’ve been discussing famous authors, their styles, ways to emulate them, and ways to stand on their shoulders. If you need to catch up,…

Blurbs
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