Minding His Manners

Bubble Gun!One thing that has always been great about the little guy is that he rarely throws a public temper tantrum.  In fact, I think 99% of his outbursts have been with mommy who he knows is more of a pushover than daddy.  Then again, I do tend to indulge him to some extent in order to avoid the tantrum.  Anyway, he’s very friendly and polite when we’re out for lunch or running some errands.  I thought I had a specific story with him on this topic, but it’s really another batch of quotes:

“I’m helping my daddy!  He can’t do this without me.”  (Conversing with an elderly woman at supermarket.)

“I’m going to get it.”  (Grabbing things off the shelf if I stop for something.)

“Why do I have this?  I don’t eat this.”  (Forcing me to go back and return what he randomly took off the shelf.)

“Good boys say Thank You.  I’m a bad boy, so I don’t say Thank You . . . Thank You for helping us.”  (Claiming he’s a bad boy to a cashier.)

“Should I help the man with the food?”  (A little confused on his role in a restaurant.)

“Wait!  I have to say good-bye to the frozen yogurt man.”  (Self-explanatory.)

“I’m sorry for *insert reason*”  (Said after every argument, tantrum, and incident.)

You know, I really did think I had a story here, but he does this a lot without prompting.  We still tend to prompt him immediately out of habit, so it’s actually the adults that have to learn to give him time to react.  It does get funny when he’s around another child who has poor manners or is throwing a tantrum.  He gets confused and starts loudly asking us why the other kid is being bad or sad.

One time he even tried to explain to a little girl that she should be saying sorry for bumping another kid off a slide.  She didn’t really pay attention, which led to him complaining to me (and the girl’s mom who happened to be standing next to me) that the little girl was rude.  From the scowl of the parent who was watching her daughter knock another kid off the slide, I don’t think she appreciated the 4-year-old’s commentary.  He opted to avoid the girl after that and play ‘extra well’ with the other kids.  Guess there was a story in there.

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A Little On Marketing Experience

Harley and her Hyenas

Harley and her Hyenas

So, I’ve been looking at sales and marketing and yadda yadda yadda.  I’ve come to a few conclusions for myself:

  1. Facebook is doing nothing for me in terms of sales.  At least with the groups.  I sometimes get a like or a share, but mostly I get nothing.  Sort of.  I get a lot of people messaging me about wanting to trade reviews or to sign up with their marketing site.  It isn’t very appealing and I’m considering not doing Facebook promotions for a few days to see what happens.  Add into this that even m non-blog and non-promo posts on both my own account and my author page tend to get nothing.  The only reason I’m still on there is for 1-2 groups, knowing what’s going on with friends, and the 2-3 people I chat with.  That second one is rather essential since I wouldn’t know about engagements, divorces, pregnancies, birthdays, or much else without Facebook.
  2. Twitter at least has more activity.  I don’t know if it’s more sales, but I see a lot of retweets, more reciprocation, and it’s getting easier to come up with catchy tweets.  The one thing I’m not sure about here is if the ‘Pinned Tweet’ is more advantageous than the non-pinned tweet.  I think it works if I’m retweeting a lot and people are reciprocating, but it means I have to always remember to switch the ‘Pinned Tweet’ every 6 hours or day.  For now, I’m sticking with the tweet every 4 hours.  Oh and all personal tweets have gone ignored, which means I won’t even bother any more.
  3. I’m out of any other marketing ideas and really just want to edit/write.  I have two blog interviews coming up this month and I keep hoping I can make time to contact someone about a Skype interview.  The full-time parent addition to my life has really taken a toll on my ability to do anything that involves Skype or chatting over a computer.  I’m dead on my feet by 4 PM even on a Monday.  This is only going to get worse as the month progresses.  So, I’m guessing this is having an effect on my sales and temperament.
  4. I’m not a fan of Amazon removing the 20 word minimum on reviews.  I know some people said it would open the door for more positives, but I’ve been seeing a lot of ‘this book is bad’ reviews.  Not just on me.  I have seen a few short positives, but I’ve also seen those vanish as if they were reported and deleted.  It does seem like this feeds into the Internet habit of only reviewing or commenting when you’re emotional about something.  9 times out of 10 it’s ‘bad’.  Even more disheartening is that I can’t take anything from the reviews as an author or a reader.  “This book is bad” doesn’t tell me why and neither does “This book is great!”  It sounds like the person said something solely to say something.  My personal favorite is ‘get an editor’ since I receive this one a lot and the past has shown that it’s my present tense third person style that causes the problem.  Without explanations though, a potential reader could just guess that the book has typos every 2-3 lines.  To be fair, a potential reader can’t tell if a person writing ‘best book ever!’ really read the book or is a family/friend of the author.  So now you have such vague reviews that it seems to hinder the usefulness of the system.

Anyway, those are my morning thoughts.  These things have been irking me for a while.  Now I’m off to do my biking and get started on the next editing project.

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Support an Author, Support a Business

mystiparker's avatarAuthor Mysti Parker

Being an author is a difficult and often lonely business. Yes, I said business, because soon as we put something out there for retail sale, we’ve officially evolved from hobby to business. The vast majority of us are indie authors, whether self-published, small press-published, or freelance, which means support in terms of both financial and word-of-mouth is vital. Without the six figure backing of  a “big six” publisher, we are small business owners, just like the guy who owns the diner down the street or the woman who owns the consignment shop or the friend who sells Avon. Quotation-Georgia-Whybird-sadness-Meetville-Quotes-224378

Often our efforts to spread the word and sell our product fall on deaf ears, lost in the crowd of the millions of other authors out there trying to do the same. Many times, support can feel very one-sided, particularly when we have done a great deal to support family and friends in…

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The Silly Things He Says

This is kicking off a week of ‘Son Stories’.  Starting with some of the silly things he’s said:

Hugging a Rhino

“No pictures!  We go now!  Stop taking pictures!  We keep going!  Bye!” (Grandparents & Mommy fell behind during first zoo trip.

“Daddy?  Can I see the Yellow Dad?”  (Requesting an episode of ‘The Simpsons’.)

“I own the garage, Grandpa.  Not you.  Me.  That my garage, so we go inside.”  (Claiming ownership.)

“No singing!”  “Be quiet please!”  “Stop talking!”  (Various methods of asking for silence even when we’re not talking.)

“Don’t worry about me, Daddy.  You worry about you.  I worry about me . . . Daddy!  I need help!”  (At least he’s trying to use the potty without supervision.)

“I’m going to help the squirrels get acorns.  They keep dropping acorns.  They need help.”  (Waiting for the bus by our oak tree.)

“Hi, Daddy!  I’m not asleep!”  (Happens 2-3 times a week when he tricks my wife into thinking he’s asleep.  He waits for her to go downstairs and then comes right into our room where I tend to be working.)

“Is the Big Man back?  I don’t like the Big Man.  The Big Man is scary.  Did the Big Man go home with his family?  The Big Man works there?  Can we not see the Big Man?”  (He realized that Halloween decorations were up at the nursery around the corner and they usually have some activities.  This includes an animatronic Zombie Butler, which he calls the Big Man.)

“I love you, Daddy.  Now can I have more cookies?”  (This never works, but he keeps trying.)

“Leave me alone, Daddy!  I’m trying to get my work done.”  (Said while I’m trying to write and he’s playing with trains.)

“I’m too little to watch Godzilla, daddy!  You have to watch it without me when you’re older.”  (Pretty self explanatory.  He does love looking at the DVD case though.)

“You silly goosey.”  (Just love this one.)

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Fall Into Fantasy Tour: The Daath Chronicles by Eliza Tilton

Welcome to the Fall Into Fantasy Tour, where we are keeping your mind off any end-of-summer blues and welcoming the cooler weather by introducing you to some incredible fantasy reads to curl up with and giving you plenty of chances to win awesome prizes!

Week 7: The Daath Chronicles
Book One: Broken Forest
Book Two: Wicked Path

Hopeless he’ll never be more than the boy who didn’t save his brother, 17-year-old Avikar accepts his life as the family stable boy, trying to forget the past. But when his sister, Jeslyn, is kidnapped, the thought of losing another sibling catapults him on a desperate quest. With his best friend by his side, and using the tracking skills he learned from his father, he discovers Jeslyn has been taken, kidnapped by one Lucino, the young lord of Daath, a mystical place thought only to exist in fables.

And Lucino has plans for Jeslyn.

His shape-shifting brethren feed off the auras of humans, and Jeslyn’s golden hue is exactly what Lucino needs to increase his power. The longer it takes Avikar to reach her, the more entranced she becomes with Lucino’s world, and the harder it will be for Avikar to set her free.

He failed his family once. He won’t fail again.

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The wagons surrounded the site in a semi-circle. Sweat pooled in my palms. I had to take out the guards closest to that entrance. If I failed, so did the mission.

Get a grip.
I clenched the arrow in my right hand. Brushfire shifted nervously, sensing my fear. I rubbed her neck. I felt safer with her. She’d been with me since Jimri’s death. At night when the nightmares taunted me, I’d sneak out, riding until dawn forced us home. I’d rescued her from the burning woods, she’d rescued me from despair — today, I prayed both of us would make it out alive.


In Wicked Path: Book Two of the Daath Chronicles brother and sister are forced to opposite sides of Tarrtainya on a fast-paced adventure where the wildlife isn’t the only thing trying to kill them.
Three months have passed since Avikar defeated the Reptilian Prince, and he still can’t remember his battle with Lucino. On the hunt for answers, he returns to the scene of the fight and discovers a strange connection between his family’s dagger and the mysterious kingdom of Daath, and it seems only his distant father can reveal the truth behind it all.
Before Avikar can travel back home, Lucy assaults him in the market and forces him to flee to Nod Mountains—a place few dare to enter, and even less return from. With Raven and her childhood friend by his side, they must survive the treacherous journey through the pass with a vengeful Lucy hunting them. If they don’t, they’ll never see home again.
Jeslyn’s new life in Luna Harbor is the perfect remedy for her confused and broken heart. But when a group of mercenaries kidnap her beloved Grandfather, interrupting her daily routine as his jewelry apprentice, she’s forced to join forces with the one person from her past she tried to forget.
And his assistance comes with a price.
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ABOUT ELIZA TILTON:

Eliza graduated from Dowling College with a BS in Visual Communications. When she’s not arguing with excel at her day job, or playing Dragon Age 2, again, she’s writing.

Her YA stories hold a bit of the fantastical and there’s always a hot romance. She resides on Long Island with her husband, two kids and one very snuggly pit bull.

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Promoting Scary Books

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SCARY BOOKS

‘Tis the season to dress like a zombie and scare up some sales.

Even if your book doesn’t relate to Halloween, it’s a great time to read scary books.

Here are a few ideas to get your brain churning:

  • Create an event. It could be a zombie run, or it could be a Halloween bash. Here is an example of a Halloween-related event at Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/events/596532817124822.
  • Contact local newspapers with a press release. An article mentioning your book in the context of Halloween helps to stir interest in Halloween among the community, which actually helps local businesses. If you want to get your book in the news, you have to try, and you have to come up with an angle that makes it newsworthy.
  • Join or start a group that features horror, scary books, Halloween, or a related topic. Facebook has groups, for example.
  • Tweet with relevant…

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#Alzheimer’s #Authors #Readers #Healthy #Living…

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This is a follow-up onSpecial Guest Author Michael Ellenbogen’s discussion on Alzheimer’s Diseaseposted 4th October 2014

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The following was copied fromCapitolwordsregarding a statement in United States House of Representatives, on 18th April 2013, by Rep. Michael G. Fitzpatrick recognizing Mr. Michael Ellenbogen and World Alzheimer’s Day.

F000451Mr. Speaker, in recognition of World Alzheimer’s Day, my constituent, Michael Ellenbogen, wrote a touching excerpt detailing his experience with early onset Alzheimer’s disease.

Alzheimer’s disease is a progressive, degenerative disorder that attacks the brain’s nerve cells, or neurons, resulting in loss of memory thinking and language skills, and behavioral changes.

Alzheimer’s disease is the most expensive disease in America, and is the only one of the top ten causes of death in America that can’t be prevented, cured, or even slowed.

It is important to work with brave people like Michael to raise awareness and take action…

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Goals of the Recently Fed

Well, I survived Yom Kippur and realized I’m extremely rusty with video games.  At least Castlevania: Symphony of the Night.  The big spell that I could usually pull off was so beyond me and I had such trouble dodging attacks.  I also got lost in the castle on several occasions.  It didn’t help that I woke up hungry and focused on keeping it to a low roar all day.  After spending time lowering my calorie intake, a day of fasting was both easier and harder.  I made it to the end with a lot less worry, but I was mildly hungry for the entire day.  Hard to explain.

I finished editing Allure of the Gypsies and I’ll be tackling Family of the Tri-Rune, which is easier since it’s already been touched on.  This one is mostly for continuity and to give myself a refresher.  I leap to Book 7 after that since The Compass Key and Curse of the Dark Wind have already been done by me.  Unless my editor cracks the whip and tells me to go over them too.  My hope is to start in on Book 9 in December the latest.  Still not sure if the next book will be out by then.  Depends on getting everything ready in time.

I won’t be starting the editing until Tuesday because Monday is eye doctor day.  I haven’t been to one since Florida, so it’s long past due.  Dilation will occur, which will be driving me nuts for hours.  It’ll be close to the son coming home from school by the time my eyes clear.  I’ll be doing some notebook work, especially now that I figured out how to work the bounty hunter.  This means only ‘Project Phoenix’ is posing a problem, which includes friends and family being ready to hurt me if I talk about it again.

Nothing else has really happened beyond that.  The son will be the week long subject of the blog this week.  Pictures and stories of the little guy will go until Friday.  Hope people enjoy that change of pace from the writing-based stuff.  I’m still seeing a division where some people want personal stuff and others want writing.  Makes me actually look forward to cutting back in January.

Speaking of blog posts, I’ll do my common question of any lengthy topics that people might want to see me tackle.  I know I have ‘Writer Comforts’, ‘Non-Human Characters’, and ‘Writing Pieces’ on my list.  I guess I need 9 subjects to get to the end of the year.  I would say I have a ‘Hype Week’, but I can’t be sure of that right now.

So, what’s the targets of the week?

  1. Eye doctor appointment and get new glasses.
  2. Start editing Family of the Tri-Rune.
  3. Notebook work on bounty hunter and possible Yola story.
  4. Biking and trying to eat better this week.
  5. Possibly a hair cut if I feel like it.
  6. I used to have more stuff to do, but this week just feels empty and slow.
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Thank You, Thunderclap Supporters

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Now that I’m fed and have gone on-line, I can talk about my experience with Thunderclap.  I got 102 supporters and it went live at noon.  So you can imagine the boost in sales I got for my books:

Well, you’re going to have to imagine it because nothing happened.  Wait!  Don’t go running away just yet.  There are benefits to this experience even if sales didn’t occur.  As an indie author, you have to think outside the box.  Did anything beneficial happen from this experience?  Yes and I’ll get to it after I make a few points:

Thunderclap Observations

  1. My highest joining days were the first 24 hours and the last 24 hours.  It seems you’ll get your trusted allies at the start and then you’ll have people step in to save the day at the final hour.
  2. A LOT of people retweeted, reblogged, or shared about the campaign without joining it themselves.  If you do one, make sure to factor this in because you can’t assume a slew of retweets is a sign of enlistment.  This can be disheartening, but take solace in the idea that they are at least trying to help.  Honestly, even if they reblog and don’t join, there’s always the chance that a friend or follower of them will.  Every little bit counts.
  3. Many people told me that they didn’t want to sign up with Thunderclap because it asked for their email contacts.  Took me a second to figure this out, but it really asks for permission to use the social media offering (Facebook, Tumblr, Twitter) for the successful post.  They don’t spam or anything like that, which is something you might want to say early on if you do one.  It’s entirely understandable that someone won’t sign up for a foreign site since Thunderclap is still gaining steam in the indie author world.
  4. I got more supporters by writing a blog post and adding a few hashtags into the title.  As far as Facebook goes, I got very little beyond the first day.  More on that later, but you should focus your energy on your blog and twitter to gather supporters.  Hashtags are essential in this one.
  5. There is a Thunderclap Facebook page that will help you out if you like.  They stepped in during my last 24 hours to give a good boost.
  6. VERY IMPORTANT!  Remember to include hashtags in your Twitter message that will go out upon success.  I think this is where I screwed up.  I forgot and added one at the last minute, but I still didn’t get anything.
  7. Know your social media power!  Aim for the low amount if you aren’t sure you have enough influence.  If you reach too far then you’re bound to fail.  Low ball the number because getting more than the minimum doesn’t hurt you.  It just means you have more than expected.

So, what were the benefits if there weren’t any sales?

  • I made a lot of new friends on Twitter, Facebook, and WordPress.  Just gathering supporters introduced me to people who I hope will help me if I ever do something like this again.
  • I realized my own social media influence.  It’s rather minimal.  Mostly, I learned that the majority of my non-computer friends and family didn’t join in.  That was pretty disappointing, but I’ve been wondering about that for a while.  It’s a strange silver lining, but it’s nice to know where I stand.

Suggestion for Thunderclap Use?

While it might not help with book sales, Thunderclap could help if you’re doing a sale or a special event.  For example, Chris McMullen is thinking of using this to promote READ TUESDAY this December.  I think it could help a lot with this.  Even the act of gathering supporters can bring attention to the event.  After all, it looks to be used predominantly for events and causes.

Well, that’s my thoughts on Thunderclap.  Will I do it again?  Probably not for my books, but maybe for any special events that I do in the future.  Anyway, that’s it for me on this one and I’m glad to put this baby to bed.  By that I mean the 5-year-old is still awake and hyper.

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