Can Heroes Be Homesick?

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I’m not even sure if I can make a big post about this.  The idea came to my mind when I was thinking about how heroes in fantasy go on big adventures.  Can’t remember many of them getting homesick.  Not majorly.  Sure, many lose their hometowns during their origins, but that isn’t everyone.  So, why don’t heroes get homesick?

Part of it might be that the heroes are heading out on a mission, so it’s assumed that they won’t think of home very often.  They will focus on the job and only consider home when they remember who they are trying to protect.  Guess it makes sense, but it can’t hold out for years like with most adventures.  Traveling with friends certainly helps, but they aren’t the same as going back to family.  Not only family, but just returning to your place of origin and remembering where you came from.  Maybe humans have a fear of forgetting their hometowns if they’re away for so long.  I know I definitely started feeling that when I lived in Florida for 4.5 years, especially since I think I only came back to Long Island twice during that time.

In Legends of Windemere, I kind of bypassed this by having the heroes either not have a hometown or return over the course of their adventures.  Luke Callindor, Nyx, Delvin Cunningham, and Timoran Wrath all had points where they went back home. Sari and Dariana didn’t have a home to return to.  So, there wasn’t much of an opening for them to get homesick.  In War of Nytefall, it never came up because the heroes were always at home during part of their story.   Clyde and the Dawn Fangs weren’t traveling adventurers, but protectors of their kingdom.  Hence, homesickness wasn’t a thing.

So, will this be an issue with Darwin Slepsnor?  I genuinely don’t know.  Events in the first book kind of prevent that, but I also found that his personality wasn’t letting me give him a bout of homesickness.  He just kept getting distracted by a new adventure, new friend, or whatever was in front of him.  Darwin being sad and missing home never felt natural even though he’s stated many times that he plans on going back.  Maybe a hero who is sure that they’ll return some day and plan to do so with stories doesn’t get homesick?  I mean, if he goes back too early, Darwin won’t have enough stories to tell or miss a big one.  For some reason, that logic makes more sense for him than missing home.

So, what do other people think about heroes being homesick?  I’m talking primarily from a fantasy adventure perspective, but we can talk in general.  I figure characters on Earth will be easier to suffer from it than non-Earth.

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About Charles Yallowitz

Charles E. Yallowitz was born, raised, and educated in New York. Then he spent a few years in Florida, realized his fear of alligators, and moved back to the Empire State. When he isn't working hard on his epic fantasy stories, Charles can be found cooking or going on whatever adventure his son has planned for the day. 'Legends of Windemere' is his first series, but it certainly won't be his last.
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12 Responses to Can Heroes Be Homesick?

  1. noelleg44's avatar noelleg44 says:

    I think the oldest examples of this is The Aeneid and The Odyssey.

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  2. L. Marie's avatar L. Marie says:

    Jean-Luc Picard kept returning to his holodeck version of his family vineyard for a taste of home. And a family in the latest Puss in Boots movie also felt homesick. Homesickness makes sense for people who are constantly on the go, especially those who are gone for years at a time. Sinbad constantly talked about his strong desire for home after each adventure he’s in (the Arabian Nights stories). My brother used to travel every week for his job. He had major homesickness.

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  3. My two WIP spiritual protagonists just felt the pangs of homesickness. They are anxious after struggling with Lucifer to get home.

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  4. For a lot of authors, homesickness might be thought of as a weakness. Plus, in fiction we’re encouraged to focus on action, action, action, so dwelling on an emotion might be discouraged. It can still be a humanizing factor for the characters, though.

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  5. I hadn’t given it much thought, but did have Lizzie St. Laurent return home once. Maybe it depends on the need of the story.

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