Revisit: What Do You Look For In Romance?

(Originally posted on August 2, 2013.  Have at it.)

This is not my genre and I barely get it to function in my own books.  I think.  I’ve glossed over romance, but I think I gravitate toward lust or awkward beginnings.  Not the smoothest romantic plotlines, but it’s better than nothing.

There are so many varieties of romance that you can put into your story and it seems some kind of romance turns up in every series.  Even a one-night stand needs something behind it like lust, loneliness, or spite.  You’re writing characters to be believable, so you need to factor in their social relationships.  Again, this is not my area of expertise or knowledge, so I’ll get to the point.

I like romances to be natural, which is probably why the awkward stumbling romance appeals to me.  That feels like how most relationships begin and move on until the wrinkles are ironed out.  Sure, you have your smooth James Bond characters, but I don’t really believe many of those exist.  I’ve met one or two smooth operators, but even they would come across a ‘target’ that they couldn’t sweep into the bedroom.  I have to admit that watching people like that fail is highly entertaining.

Now, I can get behind a love at first sight story or one that runs surprisingly smoothly at the beginning.  Those exist and they can work for a series as long as the author challenges the relationship.  Throw in doubt, loss, betrayal, and whatever you can think of to test the characters.  Make them work for the happy ending even if they got a happy beginning.

So, what do you look for in a romantic plotline?  Do you stay away from them entirely?  Is erotica the best kind of romantic plotline?

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About Charles Yallowitz

Charles E. Yallowitz was born, raised, and educated in New York. Then he spent a few years in Florida, realized his fear of alligators, and moved back to the Empire State. When he isn't working hard on his epic fantasy stories, Charles can be found cooking or going on whatever adventure his son has planned for the day. 'Legends of Windemere' is his first series, but it certainly won't be his last.
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10 Responses to Revisit: What Do You Look For In Romance?

  1. L. Marie's avatar L. Marie says:

    I like a romance plot or subplot. Those seem standard in YA fiction. 😊 I realize some people don’t like romantic entanglements in adventure series, particularly in long-running series where the characters remain single for a while. The relationship dynamic changes sometimes in a bad way, especially if a breakup occurs. But I don’t mind a good romance. I read two mystery series where the amateur detective was single and wound up married. One marriage occurred at the end of the series and another was in the middle of the series.

    The only time a relationship seemed tacked on to me was in Age of Ultron when Black Widow and Bruce Banner suddenly had a romance. That seemed to end quickly.

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  2. I find myself more and more drawn to it as a sub plot. Still like all my speculative elements, and adventure, but it can enhance a story.

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  3. V.M.Sang's avatar V.M.Sang says:

    I don’t write romance as such, nor really read it. Having said that, in my fantasy series, two characters have a strong attraction for each other, but are hiding it. Neither knows how the other feels.

    At the end of the series. I intend tend for them to get together, once the spouse of one has disappeared.

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  4. I’m not a romance reader, so I don’t really focus on that in most of my work. My romances are more in the background. I don’t understand the expectations of the genre, and I think my readers would be disappointed.

    But, I do think a romance can bring interest to stories, either as a sub plot or a more prominent role. Readers do like to cheer on their favorite “ships.”

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