Mental Health Awareness Month

Above is only a fraction of the statistics in regards to mental health.  In fact, you can see it focuses primarily on the young.  You can find tons of information if you go by gender, sexual orientation, age, race, religion, and many other categories.  It seems every group has their own struggle with mental health, which makes it a fairly human situation.

I find myself thinking about mental health a lot, but I’ve seen therapists on and off since I was a teenager.  Always felt it was good to have a professional to talk to when my life was feeling too heavy.  Of course, having anxiety and maybe a little depression doesn’t make things easier.  Seeing other people suffer from a variety of mental illnesses strengthens my resolve to get help too.  Our minds are simply fragile and can get damage without us even realizing it.

Unfortunately, I also think we live in a society that pushes us to ignore our own suffering until it creates physical symptoms.  Depression is passed off as sadness and anxiety is thought to simply be general nervousness.  We downplay our situations in order to carry on with the neck-breaking speed of existence.  I’ve had many people say that they can deal with their mental health once they retire.  Psyches don’t work that way and it shows how we forget that our minds can be scarred.  For example, constantly being exposed to negativity can cause a person’s mental pathways to be attuned to such environments.  To them, it’s a challenge to be positive or even recognize such a thing.  Negativity becomes their norm and it takes a lot of effort to get out of that mindset.

Let’s get to some questions:

  1. What do you do to improve your mental health?
  2. Do you think the society you live in supports or hinders positive mental health?
  3. How easy do you think it is to maintain and/or repair mental health?
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About Charles Yallowitz

Charles E. Yallowitz was born, raised, and educated in New York. Then he spent a few years in Florida, realized his fear of alligators, and moved back to the Empire State. When he isn't working hard on his epic fantasy stories, Charles can be found cooking or going on whatever adventure his son has planned for the day. 'Legends of Windemere' is his first series, but it certainly won't be his last.
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9 Responses to Mental Health Awareness Month

  1. I write for my own sanity. Characters seem to find way to overcome obstacles that are bigger than those I face. I think the society I live in hinders mental health. We are pushed to hit goals that matter to someone else with no consideration of our thoughts or ideas. Maintaining mental health is not easy. I believer it can be repaired when given time to actually deal with it. I am one of those who will deal with it when I retire.

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    1. My mental health has always been good. To keep it that way I try not to dwell on the negative and keep smiling.
    2. Our society has no patience for mental health issues. Also the world mess fosters insecurity which can lead to mental health issues.
    3. To maintain mental heath takes a concerted effort. To repair mental health seems like a monumental project.

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  2. V.M.Sang's avatar V.M.Sang says:

    I find both reading and writing helps to put things in perspective.

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    1. What do you do to improve your mental health? Over the past few years with fraught politics, I have learned to watch myself for becoming too angry and sarcastic. When that happens, I walk away and do something relaxing, like reading or playing Animal Crossing.
    2. Do you think the society you live in supports or hinders positive mental health? Definitely hinders it. There is still too much pressure to be a good worker drone and keep going no matter how you are feeling. (Oops, that sarcasm again.) However, since COVID there does seem to be a change in awareness of mental health. We are urged to do self-care quite often. And though it is in a shallow way (usually while urging us to buy something) that is still an important step.
    3. How easy do you think it is to maintain and/or repair mental health? There are many variables in one’s personality, work setting, family support, etc. It is not easy to confront deep issues at any time.

    I should add that I may be more aware than some because, out of four siblings, I am the only one not to be hospitalized with major depression or bipolar. I count myself lucky, believe me!

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    • Interesting because I don’t notice a push to self-care anymore. There’s the suggestion to do it, but no actual help in making it possible. The attempt to self-care is seen as laziness and one being free to do things.

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      • That’s what I mean about it being in a shallow way. Different places are different. I regularly get reminders for self care from both my school district or my union.

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