What importance does loyalty play when making decisions? What I mean is when you look over the fence at the other side, the grass may seem greener, but think about this. When you jump the barbed wire fence, cut your legs, land on your butt, and then look down at the grass it certainly doesn’t look greener, does it? In fact, it is now stained with your blood. Okay, so that’s a little graphic. The point is that making decisions, and I’ve learned this the hard way too many times, is a spiritual thing. You have to really tune into that spiritual side of yourself to ensure that when you leap, there won’t be bloodshed.

I’m not religious, but I am very spiritual. I believe that life changing, big decisions need to be meditated upon and prayed about. The answers will come. So, before you jump the fence to land…